vendredi, octobre 29, 2004


dat's the host, liping is her name by the way, in the middle, sung, the korean gal on the left, of cse, there's not other gals here, n the hunk on the rite.. haha.. jus look dat the spread of cuisine she had prepared for us.. 4 dishes!! and soup!! n look at the size of my bowl!! hah.. n i had 2 of dat.. gluttony took over me yesterday.. and man do i enjoy dat!! but i had too much, so much dat its hard 4 me the breathe or move.. i jus wat 2 sit there n i felt soooo sleepy.. if not 4 the short walk we took after dat, i think i could hav jus slept there!! it was so hard even when we tried to dance some salsa.. yes, i forgot to mention dat she's my salsa dancin partner too.. dun think dat jus becos she looked petite, she dances fabulously!!  Posted by Hello


my very gd fren frm china invited me n sung, a korean gal, for a sumptuous lunch at her place on thursday.. here's the chef in action..  Posted by Hello

jeudi, octobre 28, 2004

finally, after days of scrambling between airline websites and consultation w my finnish n swedish frens, i finally hav my voyage to Oulu, Finland, mapped out! hurray!!

here it goes:
flight by Ryanair from Paris to Stockholm;
cruise by Vikingline from Stockholm to Turku, Finland;
train by VR from Turku to final destination: Oulu.

dat's for the x'mas, den on the 29th dec, i'm parting for Sweden for New Year:
flight by Blue1 to Stockholm;
and on the 3rd Jan, 05: flight back to Paris by Ryanair.

total cost: 190euros (SIN$380) not bad eh..
saved about 300euros(SIN$600) initially if i fly by Scandinavian Airlines(SAS)..
but it takes me about a day to reach Oulu, but its gonna 2 b one hell of a adventure!!
n lots of pics too!! look out 4 it..

but, prior to dat, i'm leavin for Spain for a week, startin this Sat, so no blog..
aww.. i know.. i would b missed..

mardi, octobre 26, 2004

the best weekend of the autumn here..
it was cool, but not cold, i can actually wear singlet n shorts in my room n kitchen, how's dat!!
another lazy weekend..
capoeira as usual w matti.. den went chinese store n got some tofu!!
been 3 mths since i last tasted tofu.. when i put dem in my mouth, i was thinkin "so, this how tofu tastes.." oh man..

tried 2 do some studyin on sun.. tried.. w little success.. oh well..
it was catherina's, gal frm autria, turn to do the international cookin..
she did something greek and italian: pasta with feta.. easy n nice.. but bit fattenin thou..
then she melted chocolate into cereals.. oh.. heaven..

vendredi, octobre 22, 2004

the best weather in autumn by far.. sun shining, no wind, no rain..
birds flying n chirping, rabbit jumping and singing (ok, they dun sing)..
n i'm here in the library studyin.. man.. irony is in the house..

another weekend of loft.. nothing planned.. not gg anywhere..
was supposed to go marseilles, but they've already got 5 pax, jus nice for a car..
oh well.. more money saved for my spain and finland trip..

my korean frens asked me to go paris with them for a korean-french conference..
they said i looked like a korean so there will b no prob, if i jus keep quiet.. haha..
lodging is free, meals are free, oh man.. but i declined their kind offer..
think i'm gg to regret it.. hahaha..

jeudi, octobre 21, 2004


matti's parents dropped by Troyes yesterday evening, so we made dinner for them..
for the curoius or uninitiated, matti is the finnish hunk sitting at the most right, but sorry gals, he's already taken by a sweet finnish gal who knows martial arts..
they are very kind and friendly, they even paid for my baguette and batavia.. aww..
and, they have invited me to their home for x'mas.. i'm so lookin forward to it..
AND, matti's sister is comin back also.. n she is very pretty.. haha..
feel my horns comin out...
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i jus read this from a website, its long but i find it very touching.. read if u hav the time, please!

A Touching Story

I was born in a secluded village in a mountain. Day by day, my parents plowed the yellow dry soil with their backs facing the sky. I have a younger brother, 3 years younger than me. Once, to buy a handkerchief, which all girls around me seemed to have, I stole 50 cents from my father's drawer. Father knew about it right away. He made my younger brother and me kneel against the wall, holding a bamboo stick in his hand. "Who stole the money?" he asked. I was stunned, too afraid to talk. Father didn't hear any of us admit, so he said, "Fine, if nobody wants to admit, you two should be beaten!" He lifted up the bamboo stick. Suddenly, my younger brother gripped father's hand and said," Dad, I was the one who did it!" The long stick smacked on my brother's back repeatedly. Father was so angry that he kept on beating my brother until he lost his breath. After that, he sat down on our stone bed and scolded my brother, "You have learnt to steal from your own house now, what other embarrassing things will you do in the future? You should be beaten to death! You shameless thief!" That night, mother and I hugged my brother. His body was full of injuries, but he didn't shed a single tear. In the middle of the night, out of sudden I cried out loudly. My brother covered my mouth with his little hand and said, " Sis, now don't cry anymore. Everything has passed ." I still hate myself for not having enough courage to admit what I had done. Years gone by, but the incident still looked like it just happened yesterday. I will never forget my brother's expression when he protected me. That year, my brother was 8 years old, I was 11 years old.

When my brother was in his last year of his lower secondary school, he was accepted into a select upper secondary school in the city. At the same time, I was accepted into the province's university. That night, father squatted in the yard, smoking, packet by packet. I could hear him say, "Both our children have good results, very good results!" Mother wiped off her tears and sighed," What is the use? How can we possibly finance both of them?" At that time, my brother walked out to the yard. He stood in front of father and said,"Dad, I don't want to continue my study anymore, I have read enough books."

Father swung his hand and slapped brother on his face. "Why do you have a spirit so damn weak? Even if it means I have to beg for money on the streets, I will send you two to school until you both finish your study!" And then, he started to knock on every house in the village to borrow money. I hard out my hand gently as I could to my brother's swollen face, and said, "A boy has to continue his study, if not, he will not be able to leave this depth of poverty." I, on the other hand, have decided not to further my study in the university.

On the next day, before dawn, my brother left the house with a few pieces of worn-out clothes and some dried beans. He had sneaked to the side of my bed and left a note on my pillow; "Sis, getting into an university is not easy. I will go to find a job and send the money to you." I held the note while sitting on my bed, and cried until I lost my voice. That year, my brother was 17 years old, I was 20 years old.

With the money father borrowed from the whole village, and money my brother earned from carrying cement on his back at construction site, I finally managed to get to the third year of my study in the university. One day, I was studying in my room, when my roommate came in and told me, "There's a villager waiting for you outside!" Why is there a villager looking for me? I walked out, and saw my brother from afar, His whole body was dirty, covered by dust, cement and sand. I asked him, "Why didn't you tell my roommate that you are my brother?" He replied with a smile," Look at my appearance. What will they think if they know that I am your brother? Won't they laugh at you?" I felt so touched, and tears filled my eyes. I swept away the dust from my brother's body. And I said with a lump in my throat, " I don't care of what people say! You are my brother, no matter what your appearance is?" From his pocket, he took out a butterfly hair clip. He placed it on my hair and said, "I saw all the girls in town are wearing it, so, I thought you should also have one." I could not hold back myself anymore. I pulled my brother into my arms and cried and cried. That year, my brother was 20 years old, I was 23 years old.

The first time I brought my boyfriend home, the broken window had been repaired. And it looked so clean inside the house. When my boyfriend had returned home, I danced like a small girl in front of my mother, "Mom, you don't have to spend so much time cleaning the house!" But she said with a smile," It was your brother who went home early to clean the house. Didn't you see the wound on his hand? He was injured while replacing the window." I went into my brother's small bedroom. Looking at his thin face, I felt like there were hundreds of needle pricking in my heart. I put some ointment on his wound and bandaged it. "Does it hurt? " I asked him. "No, it doesn't hurt. You know, when I was working in the construction site, there were stones falling on my feet all the time. Even that could not stop me from working." In the middle of another sentence, he stopped. I turned my back on him and tears rolling down my face. That year, my brother was 23 years old, I was 26 years old.

After I got married, I lived in the city. On many occasions my husband invited my parents to come and live with us, but they didn't want to. They said, once they leave the village, they would not know what to do. My brother also didn't agree. He said, "Sis, you are taking care of your husband's parents. I will take care of mom and dad."

My husband became the director of his factory. We wanted my brother to get the job as the manager in the department of maintenance. But my brother rejected the offer. He insisted on starting work as a maintenance worker. One day, my brother was on the top of a ladder repairing a cable when he got electrocuted and was admitted to the hospital. My husband and I visited him. Looking at the white gypsum around his fractured leg, I grumbled, "Why did you reject the offer to be a manager? A manager will not be exposed to a danger like this. Look at you now, with such a serious injury. Why didn't you listen to us?" With a serious expression on his face, he defended on his decision, "Think of brother-in-law. He just became the director, and I almost uneducated. If I had become the manager, what kind of rumors will fly around?" My husband's eyes filled up with tears, and then I said, "But your lack of education is because of me!" "Why talk about the past?" My brother held my hand. That year, he was 26 years old and I was 29 years old.

My brother was 30 years old when he married a farming girl from the village. At his wedding reception, the master of ceremony asked him, "Who is the one you respect and love the most?" Without thinking, he answered," My sister." He continued by telling a story I could not even remember. "When I was in primary school, the school was in different village. Everyday, my sister and I walked for 2 hours to go school and to return home. One day, I lost one of my pair of gloves. My sister gave me one of hers. She only wore one glove and continued to walk so far. When we got home, her uncovered hand was so stiff because of the cold weather that she could not even hold her chopsticks. From that day on, I swore that as long as I live, I would take care of my sister and be good to her."

Applause filled up the room. All guests turned their attention to me. Words were so hard to come out from my mouth, and I said "In my whole life the one I would like to thank the most is my brother. " And in this happy occasion, in front of the crowd, tears rolled down my face again.

We should love, care and sacrifice for the ones we cherish every single day of our life. You may think what you did is just a small deed, but to that someone, it may mean a lot. Have a nice day everyone! May this story inspire you in some way!

lundi, octobre 18, 2004

tiring sat.. lazy sun..
trained some capoeira n did some stretchin in the mornin..
till angle came, we sparred abit n did some abdominal exercises..
by the angle is a spanish, not frm the skies with wings and harp on the hand..
jus happened dat he had the same name..

cycled 8km, to n fro, to decathlon to help baek, my korean fren find some climbin shoes..
never knew dat it was so far.. n so many upslopes.. it was killin my thighs..

n i STILL had to cycle to Carrefour to do some shoppin for the dinner yesterday evenin..
i tot i couldn't walk anymore after dat..

n we've GOT party at ADPS Residence in the evenin still..
i was half dead when i got there..
so i jus chatted in a room, which was less noisy, n cooler..
by 1am, i was driftin into unconsciousness.. so i went back 2 hav a pillow meeting..
i'm so wasted...

lazed 1/2 of my sun away, readin comics n watchin movie.. nice..
it was my turn 2 cook 4 the 'international dinner series'.. yesterday was s'porean cuisine..
did fried veggies with peppers and beansprouts, potato soup, fried rice and fruits with mayonnaise for dessert.. healthy vegetarian dinner for all.. haha..

today is a happy day, becos its capoeira day.. haha.. okok i'm being crappy here..
but i always liked my capoeira trg days.. something i look forward to all the time..

samedi, octobre 16, 2004


yesterday nite was 1 interesting and tiring capoeira training.. the instructor from strastbourg came to troyes and coached us.. there was some new combos of movements but nothing really new.. but it was TIRING.. the guest coach and our coach were doin some sparrin and they are fast.. really fast Posted by Hello

mercredi, octobre 13, 2004

derrick
you are a sensitive person and often find yourself dreaming about your past and future. you are quite conservative and the values that your parents and teachers instilled in you still play an important part.
you're very careful and circumspect in all matters but you won't face any problems until they actually happen. also you're a kind and sensitive person.
you are tough, hard-workind and responsible. when you are assigned to do something, you will do your best no matter how difficult the job at hand might be.
you are self-centred and disagree other people's feelings and ideas. you normally go against social rules and regulations. (the last is so so true..)

go do this interestin test:
http://media.euniverse.com/funpages/cms_content/1986/youarewhatyoueat.swf

jus when i thought CROUS people are doin work, they hav hitted us with another brick: there'll only be ONE internet connection for those who are living in the apartments sharin with another 2. for example: I'm sharin a common kitchen and corridor with another 2 students but we each hav our own room. and we only get ONE bloody internet connection.. what are they exactly THINKING?!?!?!??!... i don't even know how are we even goin to share the internet point..
n guess wat they suggested?? hav a common laptop or laptop with multiple users configuration!! i mean how stupid can they get?? who's so kind to give up their laptop for something like dat?? so the other 2 can use the internet??!! not in a million years. full-stop.
the reason for this configuration: they dun hav enough money to buy sufficient connectors or something like that.. another evidence of their lack of intelligence.. i'm about to reach the limit of my tolerance with their inefficiency..
another of derrick's de-stressin blog..
oh well.. c'est la vie.. hahah.. cynical laugh..

my 1st climb after many weeks of absence.. felt so good.. the handholds, the carabiners, the ropes.. i think its gd to stop climbin for a while and then climb again.. the feeling is fresh yet familiar at the same time..

mardi, octobre 12, 2004

hell freezed over..
dat was my current situation in troyes.. temperature is droppin by the radiator has not been turned on.. when they r SUPPOSED to!! ADPS has theirs turned on weeks ago, what's gg on CROUS?!?!? grr..
dat was b4 i went 2 the CROUS office to pay my rent and demand some long-dued questions..
but i was told some good news: the radiator will start workin end of the week.. which is still another few days away, but its better than nothing..
AND, and.. the internet is comin!!! finally, after many months of procrastination.. they are finally goin 2 get internet in our room... no longer do we need 2 go all the way 2 sch on sat mornin jus to use internet..
seemed like the french takin life very easily n relaxed.. but they need 2 improve their sense of urgency abit.. i think me too.. a natural born procrastinator.. yet i'm still complainin about others' procrastination.. oh well.. isn't it ironic..

lundi, octobre 11, 2004


emmanuelle, the french host, tryin her hand at calligraphy.. she's learnin mandarin at UTT now, n speaks quite well.. like my french, haha..  Posted by Hello


a dinner of crepes at nunue's place.. who is the beautiful dame at the end of the table.. n sorry guys, she's taken already,, aw.. haha..
ps: her petit ami sits at the right corner of the pic.. handsome eh.. haha..Posted by Hello

samedi, octobre 09, 2004

end or another day, another study week, another month of the semestre..
dun really know if i prefer time 2 go slow or fast..
slow so i can enjoy more of my time here, the culture, the architectures, the monuments.. the frens here.. the impedin winter n snow..
fats so i can return to familiar sunny tropical spore 2 my family n frens.. the food, the sun, the food.. the CHEAP food.. haha..

spent most of last nite tryin 2 settle the trip 2 spain durin the vacation..
findin enuf ppl so we can share the van , tryin 2 book the tics soon b4 it get anymore expensive..
which already had.. frm 35euros to 63.. grrr.. sud hav done it the nite b4.. oh well.. c'est le vie!

after 2 hrs of scramblin frm 1 place 2 another due 2 the lack of common mode of communication: the hp n internet.. finally got everything settled.. n missed my gymnastics session..

so i think i will hav a quiet week-end: perhaps some boulderin tomorrow mornin, visit the bookshop at centre-ville or do some shoppin, n hopefully a dinner at my french fren's place..
n sleep till the sun's pokin on my butt the nex.. b4 the nex routine commences.. haha

jeudi, octobre 07, 2004

for all: silly me had forgotten to activate the 'comments' link.. desole..
i thought it was something wrong with the program.. but in fact, it was in the settings all the while, waitin for me to activate it.. man.. n i'm supposed to be studyin computer.. hhaa

i truly believe that if u tried hard enough, and with some recklessness or courage, you can accomplish something..
i entered my tut with many questions undone.. n my sympathetic prof decided that i would do those which i don't even know how to do and what are they askin.. haha
but with the preview of the person who did the previous question of the same nature.. i thought:
'oh, what the heck? try and you would know' n up i went..
oh well, i managed to get most of the question correct..
i think my concerns is not the understandin of the concepts, but more of the interaction with prof..
the communication is not easy already, and to top it up, the pronunciation of the alphabets are so different that i always dunno which are the characters that she's tryin to tell me, especially 'a' is pronounced as 'e', and vice versa.. i always got confused.. like a kindergarten kid tryin to learn it for the 1st time.. haha..

mercredi, octobre 06, 2004

finally.. after a torturin 8hrs of lecs n tuts.. my day's finally over..
this form of self-torture continues every wed..
understandin nothing.. zlitch.. tryin 2 stay awake while the lec buzzin in front w his fluidy french..
my presence there is jus 2 tryin 2 improve my comprehension of french n 2 take any important notes.. nothin else.. well, at least i'm gainin something little by little..
at least i'm getting 2 tell the difference of one word from another, u know how french words stick 2 each other..
learnt a new dish frm matti las nite, some sort of veggie gravy topped with greek cheese..
mmm... the soury n salty taste still lingered in my mouth.. u wud hav loved it, bev.. haha..
i really enjoyed doin dinner for ppl becos i always learn some new receipes n how they appreciate my cookin too.. oh well.. i'm gettin too full of myself here.. haha..
altho today's torturous but i love it becos its capoeira day.. i always look forward to days with capoeira trainin.. dat's the silver linin of the constant dark clouds here.. haha.. being too pessimitic again..
but then.. there' isn't much else to look fwd for.. if u hav been in troyes long enuf..
i guess i feel the callin of my stomach again.. till den..


the asian room: me from spore, son from vietnam, jianggan frm china.. asia rules!! Posted by Hello

mardi, octobre 05, 2004

week-end at paris:
went to the motor show in paris on saturday with finnish fren, matti, n his student buddy, pierre.. he was very kind to shelter us at his parent's place in the outskirts of paris..
n his parents r very gd hosts.. n they i had my 1st authentic french dinner w frenchs..
they really take time to have their meal.. we started at 8 with entry, followed by principal dish, den the fromage.. when i thought it was the end.. no... dessert was on the way.. haha..
we ended arnd 10 plus.. which is quite the norm..
n the car show was grander than grand.. n it covers several buildings, each the size of 4 football fields.. n buzzin w ppl like ants in their nest.. oh man.. it wud put the one in spore to shame..
but there ain't many car girls tho.. which is quite sad.. i mean they r like the star of the show..
they really enhance the pleasure of viewin the cars.. such dat u dun even wat'w the model of the car.. those who r gigglin after readin this.. u know wat i mean ya? haaha..
the entrance fee was supposed to be 10euros but becos its my birthday dat day.. they gave me a free ticket.. i guess its the best present i got.. but the sms-es were very welcomin too.. altho i did not reply..
finally get to meet my sporean frens who had come to paris for student exchange, like me.. it was so nice meeting someone familiar after so long in an unfamiliar place.. undescribable feeling..
we had a long talk.. in singlish..( for the uninitiated, its singaporean english)
the weekend ended with lunch at pierre's place n a long drive back to troyes.. n the cycle will begin the next day.. which had commenced for 18hrs already.. with the sun at the horizon.. sendin its brillance across the university..
bright yet not glaring, warm but not unbearable..
how i wish it wud last forever.. but the yellowin of the leaves tell of the arrival of autumn..
my 1st.. how i await it with anticipation n unwillingness, which is due to my body's poor reception to cold.. hmm..

i truly believe dat once u r in the pits.. the only way is up..
after a not so smooth sailin week.. it seemed dat its startin 2 turn around..
mon evenin: managed to do a full twist durin the gymnastics session!! haha
i was so trilled n excited.. but not without the help of the coach of course..
he broke it down into many segments: the 1st half twist n the 2nd half..
i had no idea wat he wanted me to do until the very end when we combined the both..
initially he asked me to do a half-twist front somersault..
then with the body straight while executing the front..
then followed by front half-twist..
finally the merge of the two... n voila.. ladies n gentlemen.. a ful twist at ur service.. ahha
but all were executed on the trampoline into the sponge pit.. but i'm satisfied already