i don't like telling bad news, or things that would hurt them..
but sometimes i had to do it.. much to my displeasure..
my nature is that no matter how i dislike a person or how i don't agree with the things to do,
i would try my best to give advice or say something encouraging,
because i don't like to feeling of other people feeling bad by what i say or do..
perhaps i may seemed naive or too impractical to be so nice to people, maybe because of my librian traits, always trying the create a balance in everything..
i broke a news to someone i respect, although in some way i don't agree his ways of managing something. to him, i felt it's an unpleasant news but i had to tell him, eventually..
he replied rather simply, which seemed to me, the more simply, the more pain he felt inside..
i'm rather saddened, but i've to learn to deal with matters like that..
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